STOP. Before You Send That Text...
Let me guess...
He took 3 hours to text back, so now you’re crafting the “perfect” response that sounds interested but not desperate, flirty but not needy, confident but not too cold…
And you’ve been staring at your phone for 20 minutes.
Sound familiar?
Or maybe it’s this:
You had an amazing first date, but now you’re analyzing every single thing you said, wondering if you were “too much” when you offered to pay, or “not enough” when you didn’t laugh at that one joke…
Here’s the brutal truth:
Your overthinking isn’t protecting you from getting hurt. It’s guaranteeing you’ll stay stuck in the same frustrating patterns.
Why You're Working Harder at Dating Than Your Actual Job
You’re not stupid. You’re not broken. You’re not “bad at dating.”
You’re just trying way too hard.
And I don’t mean trying too hard to impress him (though you probably are).
I mean you’re trying too hard to:
- Control how he sees you
- Avoid making any “mistakes”
- Either be “perfect” or find the “perfect” guy (or both)
- Follow all the dating “rules” you’ve absorbed
The result? You’re exhausted, confused, and somehow still single (or in relationships that don’t feel right).
Tired of Overthinking Love?
Discover How to TRY LESS, To Get MORE Out of Your Dating Life…
The 15 Ways You're Sabotaging Your Own Love Life
(Without Even Knowing It)
✗ Overthinking every text, every interaction, every silence
✗ Staying silent when you should speak up (then resenting him for not reading your mind)
✗ Playing “Ms. Chill” while secretly keeping score of everything
✗ Being “Ms. Perfect” instead of being yourself
✗ Trying to fix him instead of choosing someone who’s already right for you
✗ Following manipulative dating advice that makes you feel gross
✗ Caring more about what others think than what YOU actually want
✗ Making decisions based on “supposed to” instead of “want to”
✗ Constantly blaming him for not meeting expectations he doesn’t even know about
✗ Cheating yourself out of authentic connection by performing instead of being present
✗ Fighting to win instead of fighting to understand
✗ Settling for crumbs because you’re afraid of being alone
✗ Rejecting good guys for superficial reasons while chasing unavailable ones
✗ Avoiding rejection so hard that you never actually put yourself out there
✗ And one more that’ll make you go “Oh shit, that’s me”…
If you read that list and thought “How does she know my life?”
– this course is for you.
Imagine this:
- You enjoy getting to know someone instead of auditioning for approval
- You ask for what you need instead of hoping he'll figure it out
- You trust your gut about red flags AND green flags instead of talking yourself out of what you know is true
- You feel confident in your decisions because they're actually YOURS
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15 Ways Overthinking is Ruining Your Love Life
(and what to do about it)
80 minutes of no-fluff, perspective-shifting videos to help you stop exhausting yourself in love.
Here’s exactly what you’ll discover:
🔑 Module 1-3: The overthinking traps that keep you stuck (and the simple mindset shift that breaks you free)
🔑 Module 4-7: Why being “chill” and “perfect” is actually repelling the right guys
🔑 Module 8-11: The approval-seeking behaviors that are sabotaging your connections
🔑 Module 12-15: How to stop settling AND stop rejecting for all the wrong reasons
Plus: Journal prompts after each module to help you identify YOUR specific patterns and create YOUR personal dating guidelines
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But will this actually work for me?
Look, I get it. You’ve probably tried other approaches:
- Read the dating books (still overthinking)
- Done the therapy (still people-pleasing)
- Followed the “rules” (still attracting the wrong guys)
Here’s what makes this different:
This isn’t about becoming a different person. It’s about stopping the exhausting performance and showing up as who you actually are.
Because here’s what nobody tells you: The right person will love your “too much.” The wrong person will never love your “just enough.”
Meet me:
Imani Ifedi
my philosophy
My mission is to help people make honest, aligned, and conscious choices to create more self-trusting, self-confident love lives.
And I believe that true love starts with true choice; true choice starts with true honesty; and true honesty starts with questioning the scripts and rules you’ve been given – and then creating your own.
To help people do this in their unique dating and relationship journeys, I unite logic with love, integrating principles from my educational background (Philosophy, Ethics, Policy), REBT-based strategies, mindfulness practices, and pivotal lessons from my own dating experiences and current married life.
My focus is on whole-hearted individuals who tend to date walking red flags, put themselves second, or lose themselves in relationships.
What People Are Saying
Don't just take my word for it...
Highly recommend! This course really highlighted parts of my dating life that were too difficult for me to see/understand on my own and gave me the tools I needed to help understand myself better, not be afraid to communicate better, be more intentional in my relationships, and find the confidence in myself that I had been lacking in multiple areas of my life, not just dating. Really grateful I found this course!
Micha S.
Minneapolis, USA
Imani is so helpful. You can tell that she speaks from mindful experience. Her course helped me identify my values, my goals, and find loving and honest and direct ways of communicating those things with loved ones. Even if you are not looking for a relationship (or are already in one), this course will help you feel more aligned with a sense of empowerment and confidence!
Tenara C.
Philadelphia, U.S.A.
Imani does a great job helping you find ways to date better and be more authentic, giving you the tools you need to find a great, supportive partner! I’m excited to apply some of these tools to my own dating journey.
Maddison L.
Gaeta, Italy
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- 15 bite-sized video modules (under 10 minutes each)
- Journal prompts to identify your specific patterns
- Printable reminders for key takeaways
- Lifetime access (watch as many times as you need)
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Two Types of Women Will Read This Page:
Type 1: Will think “I should probably do this” and then close the tab to go analyze her last text conversation for the 47th time.
Type 2: Will realize she’s tired of her own patterns and ready to try something different.
Which one are you?
P.S. Still considering? Good – that’s exactly the kind of intentional decision-making we’re going for.
Check in with yourself: Does this feel aligned with what you actually want for your love life?
