STOP. Before You Send That Text...
You're Probably Trying Too Hard (Again)
(Break the exhausting cycle of overthinking, over-efforting, and chasing -- in under 80 minutes.)

Try Less

Let me guess...

He took 3 hours to text back, so now you’re crafting the “perfect” response that sounds interested but not desperate, flirty but not needy, confident but not too cold…

And you’ve been staring at your phone for 20 minutes.

Sound familiar?

Or maybe it’s this:

You had an amazing first date, but now you’re analyzing every single thing you said, wondering if you were “too much” when you offered to pay, or “not enough” when you didn’t laugh at that one joke…

Here’s the brutal truth:

Your overthinking isn’t protecting you; it’s just one of the ways you’re trying too hard.

And the harder you try to make dating work, the more exhausting it becomes.

Why You're Working Harder at Dating Than Your Actual Job

You’re not stupid. You’re not broken. You’re not “bad at dating.”

You’re trying too hard at something that actually works better when you try less.

You might be trying too hard to:

Control every outcome
Avoid making any “mistakes”
Either be “perfect” or find the “perfect” guy (or both)
Follow all the dating “rules” you’ve absorbed

The result? You’re accidentally making dating harder than it needs to be. And you’re exhausted, confused, and somehow still single (or in relationships that don’t feel right).

Try Less: 15 Ways Overthinking Is Ruining Your Love Life

A refreshing mindset shift toward easier and more enjoyable dating and relating.

Free Online Mini-Course

Check out 80 minutes of direct, perspective-shifting videos to help you stop exhausting yourself in love.

By the end of this course, you’ll be able to:

1. Recognize moments (past and present) where you may have been trying too hard in dating without realizing it.

2. Identify where doing and thinking less can actually lead to better outcomes.

3. Shift from trying to control outcomes to embracing authenticity and compatibility.

4. Replace fear with curiosity so you can make dating decisions with greater confidence.

5. Communicate with honesty, directness, and self-trust.

6. Create a calmer, healthier, and more enjoyable approach to dating and relationships.

Tired of Overthinking Love?

Watch: Discover How to TRY LESS, To Get MORE Out of Your Dating Life…

What If Dating Could Actually Be... Easy?

Imagine this:

But will this actually work for me?

Look, I get it. You’ve probably tried other approaches:

Read the dating books (still overthinking)
Done the therapy (still people-pleasing)
Followed the “rules” (still attracting the wrong guys)

Here’s what makes this different:

This isn’t about becoming a different person. It’s about stopping the exhausting performance and showing up as who you actually are.

Here’s What’s Inside:

Module 1-3: The overthinking traps that keep you stuck (and the simple mindset shift that breaks you free)

Module 4-7: Why being “chill” and “perfect” is actually repelling the right guys

Module 8-11: The (unknowingly) approval-seeking behaviors that are sabotaging your connections

Module 12-15: How to stop settling AND stop rejecting for all the wrong reasons

Plus: Journal prompts after each module to help you identify YOUR specific patterns and create YOUR personal dating guidelines

Meet me:
Imani Ifedi

my philosophy

My mission is to help people make honest, aligned, and conscious choices to create more self-trusting, self-confident love lives.

And I believe that true love starts with true choice; true choice starts with true honesty; and true honesty starts with questioning the scripts and rules you’ve been given – and then creating your own.

Modern, cross-cultural, and multi-background dating and relationships are one of the most powerful places this work shows up, because that’s where it’s not just a preference to challenge rules and expectations, it’s a necessity.

To help people do this in their unique dating and relationship journeys, I unite logic with love, integrating principles from my educational background (Philosophy, Ethics, Policy), REBT-based strategies, mindfulness practices, and pivotal lessons from my own dating experiences and current married life.

My focus is on whole-hearted individuals who tend to date walking red flags, put themselves second, or lose themselves in relationships.

What Does "Try Less" Actually Mean?

It doesn’t mean caring less.

It doesn’t mean playing hard to get.

It doesn’t mean settling.

It means letting go of the exhausting effort to control every outcome, earn someone’s affection, or become the “perfect” partner.

Instead, you’ll learn how to date with curiosity, honesty, and authenticity, so your love life feels easier.

What People Are Saying

Don't just take my word for it...

Highly recommend! This course really highlighted parts of my dating life that were too difficult for me to see/understand on my own and gave me the tools I needed to help understand myself better, not be afraid to communicate better, be more intentional in my relationships, and find the confidence in myself that I had been lacking in multiple areas of my life, not just dating. Really grateful I found this course!

Micha S. Minneapolis, USA

Imani is so helpful. You can tell that she speaks from mindful experience. Her course helped me identify my values, my goals, and find loving and honest and direct ways of communicating those things with loved ones. Even if you are not looking for a relationship (or are already in one), this course will help you feel more aligned with a sense of empowerment and confidence!

Tenara C. Philadelphia, U.S.A.

Imani does a great job helping you find ways to date better and be more authentic, giving you the tools you need to find a great, supportive partner! I’m excited to apply some of these tools to my own dating journey.

Maddison L. Gaeta, Italy

TRY LESS - STARTING TODAY

Two Types of Women Will Read This Page:

Type 1: Will think “I should probably do this” and then close the tab to go analyze her last text conversation for the 47th time.

Type 2: Will realize she’s tired of her own patterns and ready to try something different.

Which one are you?

P.S. Still considering? Good – that’s exactly the kind of intentional decision-making we’re going for.
Check in with yourself: Does this feel aligned with what you actually want for your love life?

STOP. Before You Send That Text...You're Probably Trying Too Hard (Again)(Break the exhausting cycle of overthinking, over-efforting, and chasing -- in under 80 minutes.)