As a man raised in a patriarchal society where “strength” and “toughness” are seen as more important than emotions, I personally know how difficult it can be sharing your feelings in a romantic relationship. At times, sharing your feelings can […]
As a man raised in a patriarchal society where “strength” and “toughness” are seen as more important than emotions, I personally know how difficult it can be sharing your feelings in a romantic relationship. At times, sharing your feelings can […]
“Be honest” is something you have probably been told to do since you were a child. The irony is that no one really tells you how to be honest or what honesty truly means in practice. Sure, it sounds simple: “tell […]
Being in love is great, isn’t it? You get to talk to your lover about hopes, dreams, sex, fantasies, goals, desires, and all sorts of wonderful things. But oh yeah – you also have to talk about money. If you’ve […]
If you’re thinking about combining finances with your partner, but grew up with the idea that it is better to be “hush hush” about money, these questions should help facilitate the discussion between you and your partner before you make […]
People say you shouldn’t talk about money, especially early in a relationship, but we’re all about openness and transparency here at Same New Love. Why not talk about money when it’s undoubtedly going to impact your relationship, at least if […]
One of easiest ways to learn about each other is to ask each other questions, and take the time to answer truthfully and honestly. Learning new things about Imani is one of my favorite aspects of continuing to nurture and […]
As we all know, disagreement is a necessary (and healthy) part of any romantic relationship. But you may have thought to yourself, I’ve seen or been in a relationship when there was disagreement all the time, and it was about […]
We are in an anti-racist revolution. And it’s about damn time. If you are white and in an interracial relationship, here are some questions you can ask to support your POC (person of color) partner. People are protesting every day: […]